Saturday, October 6, 2012

Day 9 (Friday) -- Good-bye to Jenni

This being Friday and Jenni’s last day with us, we decided to take it easy and start with a good breakfast, which Jenni created for us (here’s a view of the cook from the loft).



More gifts and souvenirs were needed (it’s amazing how much of our energy has been devoted to finding just the right items), so we drove into nearby Drachten, which has a substantial pedestrian shopping mall.  There we resumed our search for—among other things—a Friesian flag that was just the right shape, the right length, and the right price.  Not anywhere to be found!  We did, however, score a victory with Dutch lace curtains to go over Gayle’s kitchen windows.  And a multitude of scarves.

We also found a lovely bakery run by the DeJong family!  



We also found another HEMA store (which for you Michiganders is a smaller version of our Meijers one-stop shopping), and indulged in another coffee/pastries treat and talked about the way God has moved in our lives.  A good time and good conversation.



Following a hurried lunch at the picnic table outside our cabin, we drove Jenni to Herenveen to board the train into Amsterdam, where she would catch an evening flight back to the Ukraine.  It was sad to let her go and to realize that the week had flown by so fast that it felt we had left many things still unsaid. 

Since we were out and about anyway, we drove a bit further down the A6 and took the first exit westward, to the smallest village in Friesland.  Sloten was designed and built in the 1600s by a famous Frisian fortifications engineer.  Its houses cluster along a picturesque canal, with open harbor on both sides of the town and a windmill (#21!) just outside the houses. 





I tried driving through the small lanes until it became apparent that they were not intended for motor vehicles, so we backed carefully out and found a space in the shopping center.  Mom elected to stay in the car to read, and Gayle and I set out to find that elusive Frisian flag.  We found an antiques shop that was open but utterly unattended, and then several other shops that were open (or at least unlocked) but certainly not open for business.  Apparently everything shuts down in Sloten the minute summer ends.  The frustrating thing is that we actually found the perfect Frisian flag in a shop—but the owner, who came downstairs and joined us, refused to sell us anything because the shop was formally closed.
But the scenery was worth the trip.  The neat, quaint homes, the tranquil harbor, the classic Friesian windmill—we strolled through the one main street of the village and over the footbridge.






Notice the DeJong name on the store sign, above.  We even found a construction truck with the Bajema name in the supermarket parking lot!



The evening was spent packing, organizing, and cleaning.  We planned to leave early in the morning (well, early for us) to drive back to Amsterdam and catch a 1:20 p.m. flight back to the States.  Annette brought over a large pot of pumpkin soup left over from a school lunch, so we dined again with wonderful food, then gave thanks for all the gifts God had given us during this week.

Day 8: Medieval Fortifications and an Unusual Answer to Prayer

The big question today:  Do we drive into Germany, or explore more of Holland?

We decided to do both.  Which meant an on-time departure, something we had not been good at achieving on our other days.  (With showers, hair-drying, and magnificent breakfasts, we usually left home about noon each day!)  But by 10:00 a.m. we were in the car, ready to go. 

On the drive through the province of Groningen, we were on the lookout for more windmills, as our count was approaching 20.  (One of Mom’s friends had told her that she visited Holland and never saw a single windmill, so we were determined to document their existence.)  We added none on this day until we reached our first destination: the medieval village of Bourtange, on the border of Holland and Germany.

Bourtange is located on some of the only solid ground in the marshy wetlands that stretch from the north coast down a substantial portion of the German-Dutch border.  In the 16th century, William of Orange ordered that the village be fortified against a possible German invasion, fearing that invaders would choose this point as the best place to invade with horses, wagons, and cannons. 

The town was fortified with a series of walls and moats arranged in a star-shaped pattern, which from the sky looks amazing (picture is courtesy of Google images):



The purpose of this design was to make it nearly impossible for an army to get through into Holland.  The fortifications gradually fell into disrepair, so that by the 20th century there was almost no trace of them left.  In the 1960s and 70s, the townspeople decided to rebuild the village and moat system the way it used to be, with authentic reproductions of the buildings that had been lost.  Today’s village of Bourtange is the result.

We parked our car in the information center (no motor traffic is allowed in the small village except for residents) and got on a shuttle bus that would take us to the village center.  In the parking lot was a small yellow cat calling for someone to pet him, so we all obliged.  The shuttle driver informed us that he was one of two village cats who were fed by everyone and who often traveled the shuttle bus with visitors. 




At the village center, rough with primitive cobblestones, we were surrounded by a circle of shops, cafes, museums, and resident homes, all situated as they had been in the 1500s.  We had coffee and pastries in one of the cafes, fortifying ourselves for the exploration to come.



After coffee, we found the old Reformed church, a quiet and peaceful place, still used for worship.



On one wall was hung a triptych dating back to the early 1500s, the time of the Reformation.  On this wooden plaque was hand-painted the essential articles of faith:  the Ten Commandments, the Apostle’s Creed, and the Great Commission.  A wonderful visual of our common heritage of faith through the centuries.




After that, we wandered out to the village windmill, a replica of a rare type of transportable windmill (set on wooden posts) used for grinding corn. 




We explored the dikes and gardens, peering into what we thought were museum windows until we realized that they were private homes!  We especially appreciated the fine shops that held wonderful treasures, some of which we purchased for gifts for family back home. 





But the best part of the day was a unique answer to one of my prayers.  Along with prayers for Mom’s health and strength, for protection for our rental car, and for finding the places we wanted to go, I had a specific but unspoken prayer:  to find some proof that the Van Dyken descendants had not completely vanished from the land.  I had wanted to find a tombstone with the name “van Dijken” carved into its stone.
So far we had not found one, even in the cemetery that adjoined the old Van Dyken homestead.  Nor a single business or sign that contained the Van Dyken name.  Where had they all gone?  After all, this was one of the dutchiest of Dutch names.  It means “from the dikes.”  How much more of a true Hollander could you get?

On the shuttle bus into Bourtange, an older couple joined us:  Mrs. and Mrs. PJ Eigeman.  We exchanged friendly greetings.  Her walker was packed alongside of Mom’s.  We made small talk and discovered, as is usual when playing Dutch bingo, that we had a lot of connections.  Mr. Eigeman happens to be, among other things, the uncle of Andy Ryskamp of CRWRC in Grand Rapids.  (At which point, as is common in this bingo game, the young lady driving our shuttle turned around and said, “I’ve visited relatives in Grand Rapids also.  Do you know the Kok family?”  Ralph and Edi Kok were long-time members of my church and dear friends.)

Later that afternoon Jenni came running to get me out of one of the shops.  “Come quick!  We want a picture!  We found a Van Dyken!”  While conversing with Mom, Mr. and Mrs. Eigeman discovered that we were researching our Van Dyken heritage.  Mrs. Eigeman exclaimed, “My mother was a Van Dyken!  She is still living in Bedum!”  So we embraced each other as long-lost cousins, and marveled again at the connections we discover with people when we begin to talk.



Later, on the way back to the parking lot, Mr. Eigeman told us some of his life story.  Born south of Amsterdam, he was orphaned at a young age and was taken in by an older, married sister near the city of Groningen.  (“A happy move,” he said, “because otherwise I would not have met my dear wife!”)  One clear memory of wartime Holland is that a young Jewish mother came to the house, asking the family to take in her newborn son.  The woman’s husband had already been taken to Auschwitz, and she was afraid that she too would be transported into Germany.  Her fears were realized, and she suffered terribly in the camps but emerged alive.  When she returned for her son, it was heart-wrenching for PJ’s family to give up the young boy they had come to love as a son and brother.  To this day, PJ maintains contact with his adoptive brother, who lives in England and has no other living blood relatives.  “We talk every other week,” he says.  “He is still my brother.  We are all the family he has.”

PJ’s parting advice:  “Talk to people.  Get to know their stories.  Everyone has a story.  When we ask questions and listen, we can hear these stories and find out how we are connected.”  What a blessing to have met PJ and his wife!  And cousins yet too!

After a cool, windy picnic lunch—eaten just before a drenching rainshower—we drove off to find the German border a few miles away, and then hopefully to the German town of Bentheim about an hour south of us, which Sjoerd had told us contained a lovely castle.



Unfortunately, our map of the Netherlands did not extend far enough to show the town, and despite Jenni’s excellent navigational skills, we never really found the town.  (Which disappoints me later, as I write this, because I have just learned that there is a large contingent of “Bentheimer” Dutch/Germans living in Grand Rapids, who gather every year to celebrate their heritage.)  Just for fun, here is what we missed (courtesy again of Google images):




We did, however discover our 20th windmill!  With a rainbow behind it, which we took as a kind of benediction that we could abandon our journey and head for home.



So, feeling a bit weary, we turned our faces toward home and were glad to enjoy yet another night of chili and toasted cheese sandwiches.